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What to buy your lady for Valentine’s Day? Hopefully, this is a question that all lovely boyfriends and husbands will be asking
themselves over the coming weeks because, as loathe as I am to say this as a modern independent woman, it really does mean a lot
to us.

I am not sure exactly why it is so important. Perhaps it’s because we are weened on a diet of fairytale princes and happy endings as
soon as we are old enough to walk. Or perhaps we just remember the excruciating wait to see if we would be the only girl in the
school yard not to get a Valentine’s Card! Secretly, we just all love a bit of romance, we love to feel special and show the world what
a fantastic boyfriend/husband we have!

So what do we really want for Valentine’s Day?

It is much easier to tell you what we don’t want. We definitely don’t want anything practical.

We want to feel loved but we also want to feel desirable and that is the secret to keeping all ladies happy this Valentine’s Day. Get the
balance just right and we will be putty in your hands and you are likely to get very lucky!

Common mistakes men make when buying Valentine’s gifts

1) My sugar dumpling

We want you to love us but as a woman not a puppy. No sickly sweet poems or songs, no cutesy teddy bears and love heart
sweeties.

2) My lady is a tramp

No crotch less panties, one piece lycra catsuits or leather thongs. No peep hole bras, whips and chains or sex favour vouchers.

Your gift has to say, “you are a gorgeous, sexy, unique, modern woman and I am head over heels in love and lust with you”. The
keyword is classy.

My advice is to pick one item from each of the lists below:

Romantic gifts

Flowers
Chocolates (no love hearts)
A book (a classic she has always wanted to read)
A CD or film (something that is symbolic for the two of you or brings back memories of your time together)

Erotic gifts

A sex toy (classy and ideally something you can both enjoy)
An erotic novel (to read together)
Massage oils
Lingerie (choose carefully, remember no crotchless panties.
Make sure it is classy and sensual. Getting the right size is
also important. Try and find out what size she is, or ask the
store for advice).

Follow these fool-proof steps and you can’t go wrong!
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Gemma
Founder of April Nites