What_women_really_want_for_Valentines

What to buy your lady for Valentine’s Day? Hopefully, this is a question that all lovely boyfriends and
husbands will be asking themselves over the coming weeks because, as loathe as I am to say this as a
modern independent woman, it really does mean a lot to us.

I am not sure exactly why it is so important. Perhaps it’s because we are weened on a diet of fairytale
princes and happy endings as soon as we are old enough to walk. Or perhaps we just remember the
excruciating wait to see if we would be the only girl in the school yard not to get a Valentine’s Card!
Secretly, we just all love a bit of romance, we love to feel special and show the world what a fantastic
boyfriend/husband we have!

So what do we really want on Valentine’s Day?

It is much easier to tell you what we don’t want. We definitely don’t want anything practical.

We want to feel loved but we also want to feel desirable and that is the secret to keeping all ladies
happy this Valentine’s Day. Get the balance just right and we will be putty in your hands and you are
likely to get very lucky!

Common mistakes men make on Valentine’s Day

1) My sugar dumpling

We want you to love us but as a woman not a puppy. No sickly sweet poems or songs, no cutesy
teddy bears and love heart sweeties.

2) My lady is a tramp

No crotch less panties, one piece lycra catsuits or leather thongs. No peep hole bras, whips and chains
or sex favour vouchers.

Your gift has to say, “you are a gorgeous, sexy, unique, modern woman and I am head over heels in
love and lust with you”. The keyword is classy.

My advice is to pick one item from each of the lists below:

Romantic gifts

Flowers
Chocolates (no love hearts)
A book (a classic she has always wanted to read)
A CD or film (something that is symbolic for the two of you or brings back memories of your time
together)

Erotic gifts

A sex toy (classy and ideally something you can both enjoy)
An erotic novel (to read together)
Massage oils
Lingerie (choose carefully, remember no crotchless panties.
Make sure it is classy and sensual. Getting the right size is
also important. Try and find out what size she is, or ask the
store for advice).

Follow these fool-proof steps and you can’t go wrong!
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Gemma
Founder of April Nites